Identity Issues...

[Kyler Thatch]

I really don't know what advice I can give right now.

All I can say is whatever happens, we're all here for you. Good luck...

[CodeCat]

And let's not forget: whether you're Mr. Moddex or Ms. Moddex or something in between, you're still Moddex no matter what, and we still like you.

[Loeln]

I wish I could look female because in that form, you are not judged so fiercely by your peers. With being a man, you have to look muscular, tall, not overweight, skilled, fast, tough looking, and even lower anatomy is super critical. With a female frame, you are not so badly judged.

I believe there are numerous girls that would probably disagree with you on that. Whether that includes girls that are out of high school or college however, I'm not certain of.

Myself, going by your name and posts, for some reason I thought you were male. On the other hand, for some reason I also thought VisMis was female. Still not too sure why...

[Moddex]

Thanks guys. I don't know if I intend to get anything actually done to me though. That's
A: Expsensive
B: A bit odd
C: I'm going to be a body guard for my mom in Vegas

It's going to be kinda difficult as it is admiting this sort of desire to my family, but what the heck, I'm weird already, so.

[johndoe0028]

I also thought VisMis was female. Still not too sure why...

'oly crap! I thought the same thing! Maybe it's the "Mis"...?

Moddex, don't worry. You'll do the right thing; I know it.

[CodeCat]

Just saw that drawing you did in your DeviantArt, and I like it a lot. It touched me somehow.

The two sides are so harshly separated from each other, like there is no way in between. But it's not so much a mirror as it is a gateway - a wall you can cross through. You don't need to stay on one side and never visit the other. That mirror is a path to another side of you. But both sides are you equally, there is no right or wrong side. You don't have to give up part of who you are, if you choose to acknowledge that the gateway is there.

[Tum0spoo]

Just saw that drawing you did in your DeviantArt, and I like it a lot. It touched me somehow.

Wow, that... wow. It's so pretty. Very very nice. Such honesty and truth in it. I agree with CC.
*gives Moddex a hug*

[Moddex]

Thanks everyone... It feels reassuring that my friends and allies are here to empathize with me... I have decided to be reffered to as two different names now if you all want. My other name shall be Alnett. You can choose to call me either name. I'd be happy with both.

[gen200]

why am I so late?

I can sorta relate to what you're going through, Alnett.

except that I know I'd rather be feminine now, than have had to go through puberty.

I'm here for you.

always,

Gene.

[Liberal Cynic]

Moddex, at this time I want you to know we will never judge you due to your apperance. We will never put you down on any idea you have. We will alway support your ideas and action(as long as they don't harm anyone). Our belief is judging in actions and intentions. We are more high-minded than society, knowing that just because one might be over-weight, or short, is no reflection of their true apperance. Your true apperance comes from the all the joy and merriment you bring us on this forum. As long as you are on this forum you will be family. We will stick up for you and care for you. No matter what you choose to look like, it will make no difference to us. To us you will alway be Moddex, the kind, the smart, and the true.

[Tum0spoo]

Unless you turn into a giant monster and start eating people. Then some of us might try to capture you and sell you to science.

[Moddex]

O.0|l' Riiight... Anyway, thanks LC. Those are strong words right there. Deep, very deep...

[Liberal Cynic]

You know ,Moddex, after reviewing some of the talk about this on the Zenith Project, I may have found one explanation to how your feeling. Though you are male, there are parts of you that have evolved past the male stage of life to a better understanding, putting it more simply, you are developing or evolving into a better understanding of things. Because one must be male or female shrouds these feelings amoung people. You may have the best of both sides of the genders. Or evolving past the concept of it. Rather than being one, you have evolved into being neither. Something many of us do as we mature. As some female might want to be male, it is all evolution rather than mis-placement. You just feel that since there are only 2 genders, the new feeling you are getting, you have never seen in a male before, so logic would tell us that it is female action, but what if we think beyond that. Beyond gender to mental understanding and evolution. So rather than thinking one is male or female, think of it as primitive or advanced. Though many religions would disagree with my theroy, I ,myself, am atheist so this is not intended to offend anyone. Though through my study this is not gender affiliated, but mental and psychologicly. A break-through in modern biology.

Edit: this may also explain the begining of asexuality in humans, something that is growing in society today.

[Moddex]

*Blinks* You could be more than right on that count, but what would one call this tate of mind and physical evolution? Omnisexual..?

[Niko123000]

You know ,Moddex, after reviewing some of the talk about this on the Zenith Project, I may have found one explanation to how your feeling. Though you are male, there are parts of you that have evolved past the male stage of life to a better understanding, putting it more simply, you are developing or evolving into a better understanding of things. Because one must be male or female shrouds these feelings amoung people. You may have the best of both sides of the genders. Or evolving past the concept of it. Rather than being one, you have evolved into being neither. Something many of us do as we mature. As some female might want to be male, it is all evolution rather than mis-placement. You just feel that since there are only 2 genders, the new feeling you are getting, you have never seen in a male before, so logic would tell us that it is female action, but what if we think beyond that. Beyond gender to mental understanding and evolution. So rather than thinking one is male or female, think of it as primitive or advanced. Though many religions would disagree with my theroy, I ,myself, am atheist so this is not intended to offend anyone. Though through my study this is not gender affiliated, but mental and psychologicly. A break-through in modern biology.

Edit: this may also explain the begining of asexuality in humans, something that is growing in society today.

That would Explain Asexuality, and I 100% agree, this could be evolution for humans in a way. You could be an evolutionary breakthrough!