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An Explanation for my Absence

Posted: Sun Jul 26, 2009 2:23 am
by Arloest
Some of you may or may not have noticed that I have seldom been online lately. There are reasons for this, and I feel I should state them.

Well, there are basically two reasons, on the whole. One reason is that, this summer, I found out that pretty much 3/4ths of all of my friends are moving away somewhere after this summer. So I've taken the time to spend as much time with them as possible before they leave, which takes a way a significant amount of online time.

The second reason, and perhaps the more pressing one, is that I've finally decided to get cracking on my dissertation. Dissertations are, as anyone should, pretty serious business and require lots of time. Basically, if I didn't force myself to really start working on it now, I would have eventually had to rush it, which is not good.



But now...


Tonight I got into, by all accounts, a pretty bad wreck. No one was hurt... but it was my fault. And my car was pretty much totaled, and I'm pretty sure the other driver's is too. This is the last thing I needed right now, because do I not only not have a car... but now I have pay for loads of shit.

So this is a pretty bad time in my life. Hopefully it doesn't get much worse than this.

Thanks for everything, and sorry for my absence, which will have to continue, especially now.

Posted: Sun Jul 26, 2009 2:38 am
by sad jazz cantaloupe
:( I am sorry to hear that Angela.
Thanks for everything
you're welcome :o

Posted: Sun Jul 26, 2009 2:42 am
by Segovia
I want to make a joke right now but.... I don't want to be a jerk. Welcome back Angela.

Posted: Sun Jul 26, 2009 2:44 am
by klimt
damn. alright. do what you've gotta do...glad to hear you weren't killed in a car accident, which i have been worrying about most of the month :(


pop in every now and again to reassure us of your continued good health, if not luck, which i hope improves.

i'm pullin for ya, and its bound to get better sometime.

Posted: Sun Jul 26, 2009 5:41 am
by datherman
damn. alright. do what you've gotta do...glad to hear you weren't killed in a car accident, which i have been worrying about most of the month :(

pop in every now and again to reassure us of your continued good health, if not luck, which i hope improves.

i'm pullin for ya, and its bound to get better sometime.
Basically this. I fully agree, real-life friends should take priority, especially those you won't see again in a long time. Just keep in touch sometimes, alright?

Posted: Sun Jul 26, 2009 6:40 am
by Gecko
Hope it all goes well for you, you seem like quite a decent person.

Posted: Sun Jul 26, 2009 7:28 am
by Burning Sheep Productions
Thank you for letting us know.

Posted: Sun Jul 26, 2009 10:27 am
by nickspoon
Sorry to hear about the accident, glad that no-one was hurt. Best of luck with your dissertation, and it'll be nice to have you around again when you're done.

Posted: Sun Jul 26, 2009 5:25 pm
by Muninn
damn. alright. do what you've gotta do...glad to hear you weren't killed in a car accident, which i have been worrying about most of the month :(

pop in every now and again to reassure us of your continued good health, if not luck, which i hope improves.

i'm pullin for ya, and its bound to get better sometime.
Basically this. I fully agree, real-life friends should take priority, especially those you won't see again in a long time. Just keep in touch sometimes, alright?
This. Also, I hope everything is sorted out with the least strife Angela. Be well.

Posted: Sun Jul 26, 2009 6:32 pm
by BackOfNickel
You're just making excuses to not hang out with me :(

edit: You should also tell us what your dissertation is about

Posted: Sun Jul 26, 2009 10:50 pm
by Tarukai
Good to hear back about you, Arlo, and good luck with everything that's been thrown your way.

Guinness for strength!

Posted: Mon Jul 27, 2009 3:22 am
by Bocaj Claw
Good luck on your dissertation and the other things of equal importance.

Posted: Mon Jul 27, 2009 2:52 pm
by Doc Sigma
You are at a terrible point in your life right now and I feel sad for you. :( All I can say is, imagine how awesome everything will be when you're finished with your dissertation!

Posted: Mon Jul 27, 2009 2:57 pm
by Foxchild
Erfs :(

Wish ya the best, which is unfortunately all I'm able to do~!

Posted: Sat Aug 01, 2009 11:39 pm
by Caoimhin
I'm really sorry to hear about this, hope everything is going well :(. Good luck, and glad you weren't hurt. You should sit back, relax, and enjoy some mashed rutebega to keep us in your heart :grin: .