Without pondering what the two words might be, let me say that I have little reason to doubt those females. They tend to identify themselves as wives, fiancees, and mothers rather than tempting targets for flirtation. They don't call much attention to their femaleness, and none of their stories sound fake. I've even had occasion to meet some of them.
OTOH, some females pose as males online so as not to draw unwanted attention from lovestarved geeks. But I'd be surprised if they were here and not lending their support to Arloest, Lissou, and whoever else is still here. (Amber didn't stick around, huh?)
In that case, you must not visit any less-than-intelligent forums (*coughgamefaqscough*

). Somebody pretending they're female is pretty much a daily occurence on any GameFAQs social board. Of course, I'm banned now, so I don't really visit there much anymore.